#380092 - After our wedding she was no longer going to accept the periods of being apart and I was happy to take a lesser job near our home town so that we were always together however over the next few years I became more and more restless and began blaming Amanda for my frustrations at work and our relationship began to become strained, by the time of Amanda’s 30th birthday we were often arguing and not speaking for days our sex life had ground to a halt and she had taken to sleeping in the spare bedroom where I could often hear her satisfying herself at night with her vibrator, I wanted to make things up to her but it never seemed to happen then one afternoon she asked me directly if I was still interested in her sexually as if I wasn’t she worked beside many men who would be I foolishly replied that “If that’s what you want go for it, don’t let me stop you” as soon as I said it I regretted it, but pride stopped me saying so. She returned after only a few minutes wearing only a dressing gow